Creating and Keeping Chemistry with Alicia Davon

Creating and Keeping Chemistry with Alicia Davon

Creating chemistry takes skill. Along with her husband, Erwan, today’s guest, Alicia Davon, has helped over 12,000 singles and couples have exceptional relationships. She is a relationship and romance expert who has a deep and caring interest in women’s sexual and relationship satisfaction after a profoundly transformative experience in her early college days. During today’s conversation, we talk about how she came to be in the business of counseling couples and how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course. She explains to us what it really means to lose chemistry, what intimacy means, and why it is different for most people. Alicia also introduces us to some of the tools that she and Erwan use to guide their clients, including the 12 structured touching techniques and four practices she trains people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice. We hope you join us to hear all this and much more today! 

Key Points From This Episode:

• What it was like for Alicia to grow up with great parents in Los Angeles.
• The crisis point she experienced at UC Santa Barbara, where she became depressed.
• How her spiritual exploration lead to a realization that there was more to being a woman.
• The story of how she met her husband, Erwan, through his Pleasure Course.
• Alicia confirms that what we are missing as women is the connection to our body. 
• The multifaceted reasons that chemistry wears off, including the lack of novelty.
• What losing that chemistry really means and how you can learn skills to regain it.
• How becoming a parent impacts your connection to your own sexuality and pleasure.
• One of the keys, which is to make time and space for the relationship.
• The set of 12 touching practices that Erwan and Alicia have developed for couples.
• How couples often have the same goal but different ways of getting there. 
• What intimacy is and why it is different for most people.
• Why sex is only as good as the woman is enjoying it because, biologically, we carry the heat.
• Why men and women have to go at the woman’s pace in order to have a positive experience.
• Why it is important to do self-exploration in order to know what you like. 
• Alicia explains why prioritization is the key to sustaining a good sex life once you have kids.
• Why prioritizing pleasure doesn’t have to just be sexual. 
• The four practices Erwan and Alicia train people in: meditation, psychological inquiry, body practice, and sensual practice. 

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Alicia Davon on LinkedIn
Alicia Davon on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings on Instagram
Erwan Davon Teachings on Facebook
Erwan Davon Teachings
Erwan and Alicia Phone: +415 3089 580
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